This is a brief post for all who are married or want to be married some day.
Getting away with your spouse is crucial for your marital health. My wife and I just did for the first time in 2+ years (aka since the adoption of our daughter). It was so refreshing and renewing for us and our relationship.
You don't have to go far. You don't have to go expensively. But do go. Get out and do something together that you can enjoy. When you do this, don't schedule a bunch of stuff that keeps your individual preferences at the forefront. The biggest thing is to carve out the time it takes to really be together.
The guy who did our premarital counseling told us: "Your quality time will come in the midst of your quantity time."
So plan some time and get away. Renew. Reconnect. Refresh.
But that's just me thinking thoughts...